Marriage Matters: This Husband’s Work

Marriage Matters: Kyle with his wife Jackie of 9 years

Kyle Douglas, the author of today’s Marriage Matters personal essay, and I have known each other for over 25 years. As always, none of us know what happens in any marriage behind closed doors, but we can certainly learn from and be inspired by the ones that are seemingly healthy, happy and honest about how they attempt to stay that way. I’m proud of the husband and father Kyle appears to have become. I remember when this dude sported a high top fade! Check out his take on what it really means to work at a marriage.

This Husband’s Work by Kyle Douglas

As a child, it is not uncommon for someone to ask the question, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Back then I gave answers like, “A pilot, a professional football player, and even an electrician.” This mentality stayed with me ’til about my late teens and then something changed. I can’t tell you exactly what triggered it but those things were no longer important. My goal in life was to become a good if not great family man. [Read more...]

Tie the Knot Tuesday – Kesha and Steven

Kesha + Steven Say I Do: Share Their Bliss

Couple: Kesha and Steven
Wedding Date: August 31, 2014
Wedding + Reception Location: Grand Historic Venue, Baltimore, MD
Wedding Theme: Easy Elegance

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5 Things We Can All Learn from Solange’s Fab New Orleans Wedding Plus Video Footage

Newlyweds Solange + Alan Ferguson strike a pose on their wedding day

Kim who? Chile, please. Solange broke the Internet! The 28 year-old singer, DJ and Puma creative director wed her longtime boyfriend Alan Ferguson in New Orleans yesterday — complete with a second line — and the Internet went ba-na-nas. Here’s what all the hoopla was about and what we can all learn (or be reminded of) about wedding planning from the stylish newlywed plus plenty of swoon-worthy pics and an aww-inducing video clip from the creative all-white affair. [Read more...]

Mars vs. Venus – Critique of a Groom’s Reception Look

Black on Black on Black

Cousin Mars thinks – I’ll start by saying Nasir Jones aka Nas (pictured above) is from Queens, NY…as am I, might I add. Now let me get into this all black “get-up.” [Read more...]

FINAL FRIDAYS WITH COUSIN MARS – IS PRIVACY REALISTIC IN MARRIAGE?


I can think of many benefits of waiting until entering your 30s to tie the knot. However, one fairly common challenge like-minded individuals often face is figuring out how and what habits and behaviors to abandon. Many topics can fall under this umbrella, but I’d like to specifically discuss privacy. Individuals over 30 are generally more set in their ways than their younger counterparts; often leading to a more interesting adjustment period. According to Merriam-Webster’s online dictionary, Privacy is defined as freedom from unauthorized intrusion. [Read more...]

Tie the Knot Tuesday – Nicole and Leonard

Nicole + Leonard get hitched! Share their bliss.

Couple: Nicole and Leonard
Wedding Date: July 19, 2014
Wedding and Reception Location: Hotel Seven 4 One, Laguna Beach, CA
Wedding Theme: Romantic Chic

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Mars vs. Venus – Critique of a Guy’s Engagement Session Look

Potential Engagement Session Outfit

Cousin Mars thinks – This outfit could be worn during an engagement session photo shoot. [Read more...]

(Not Quite) Tie the Knot Tuesday – L’Oreal and Jeff

(Not Quite) Tie the Knot Tuesday Presents: L'Oreal + Jeff in Chi-Town!

Couple: L’Oreal + Jeff
Engagement Session Locations: Popular attractions throughout Chicago, IL
Wedding Date: November 1, 2014
Wedding Location: National Aquarium in Baltimore, MD

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Tie the Knot Tuesday – Shannon and Stuart

Triple B Presents: Shannon and Stuart! Share their love.

Couple: Shannon and Stuart
Wedding Date: July 26, 2013
Wedding and Reception Location: Glen Island Harbour Club, New Rochelle, NY
Wedding Theme: Simple Elegance

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Marriage Matters – Thinking Inside the Box


I found the above message on Instagram a couple weeks back and thought it was profound. So much so that I needed to share. It is easy (too easy) to get caught up in the rings, the gown, the flowers, the reception music, and the 18,000 other things that even the most focused engaged couple can forget the true point of it all.

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