Like most of you, I was saddened to learn Ruby Dee passed away yesterday (June 11, 2014). Her work as an actress, philanthropist and civil rights activist made her a bona fide cultural icon. But her marriage to fellow actor Ossie Davis was equally as memorable as her acting career. In fact, the names Ossie and Ruby just roll off of our tongues like peanut butter and jelly. More Harlem than Hollywood, they were one of those couples in the public eye who genuinely seemed to like each other — it was refreshing and welcoming. Mr. TK (my hubby rocks!) reminded me, because I honestly had forgotten I even penned the post, about this of this blog piece I wrote in 2008 about Mrs. Ruby Dee. I smiled while reading it and I think you might, too. Here’s a snippet:

I was blessed to meet Ruby and Ossie Davis (RIP) in 2004 and she was just as graceful as you might expect. But she was also kind of sassy which I respected as well. Although I wasn’t in their presence long, their love for each other was palpable. Ruby is much more than a talented actressand the power couple stood up for what they believed in together. I’ve met many celebs in my day but that encounter is by far one of my most cherished.

At 91 years old, Ruby Dee lived a full life and one that inspired so many of us. Whether single or attached, let’s make sure our love inspires generations behind us as well. Because love truly is one of the strongest forms of legacy any of us will ever inherit.