Cousin Mars posed this question on Twitter last week so I thought I’d have you guys weigh in here, too. What are your thoughts on Jack & Jill bachelor/bachelorette parties? I personally think they’re a good idea (I’m always up for a fun game night!) especially if the bride and groom’s friends are already cool or the nearlyweds want their respective loved ones to get to know each other better before the big day. But realistically I think the couple still ends up doing their own thing without their spouse to be in addition to the Jack & Jill shindig. Leave me (and Cousin Mars) a comment with your thoughts below. And definitely let me know if you’ve ever attended one before. Tell the truth — was it fun or were guests scared to let their guards down?

By the way, get ideas on awesome bachelorette activities here.

Sound off, folks!